The Facebook incident is a cause for sexual harassment or at least hostile work environment. I don't know how strong the case would be since the manager's constant texts rather than speech are not illegal nor conclusive of wrongful behavior.
As for dating a minor, it would depend on how old the manager is (he shouldn't be more than a few years older) and whether the "physical" relationship is actually sexual. An adult having a relationship with a minor isn't illegal, but an adult having sexual intercourse with a minor is illegal.
Still, I urge you to speak with a lawyer since this has the makings of a hostile work environment case.
I am not a lawyer. Please see an attorney for legal advice.
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